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Encourage playfulness. Continue to allow her to order her pleasure from you.
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Very gradually, introduce the notion of switching between dominance and submission. Besides giving you some respite, this should help her — and you — to better understand and enjoy the pleasures of fluidity, rather than rigidity, in polarised games.
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